About me
Hello, I'm Ana Vaz
Pleasure & Power are my full-time endeavor
Certified trainer educating Beyond Norms 
I am here to help you stop performing and start living.
You are following rules you didn’t choose.
Society tells you how to act and who to love, but no one ever asked what you actually want.
My work operates at the intersection of Education, Eroticism, and Empowerment.
I provide the safety and the tools you need to explore the parts of yourself that society told you to hide.
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My Journey
For years, I tried to fit into conventional ideas of love and intimacy… until I realised they kept me from who I really was.
I unlearned, explored, and turned that curiosity into work.
Now, I help others do the same: reclaim pleasure, autonomy, and the right to express themselves without shame.
I am a certified trainer and a therapist in training creating learning and practice spaces where education, eroticism, and empowerment meet.
My work is informed by personal lived experience together with a synthesis of ongoing education, professional practice, and group facilitation, grounded in intervention ethics and activism:
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Workshops on BDSM & Power Dynamics
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Education on female squirting
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Bespoke mentoring and consulting
I don’t teach formulas: I facilitate experiences and reflections that help you understand your body, your desire, and your boundaries.
My Vision
Pleasure and Power aren’t opposites; they’re partners.
My work builds bridges: between body and mind, desire and consent, vulnerability and strength.
I want everyone I work with to leave feeling more confident, curious, and self-aware, whether in a relationship, a power dynamic, or a moment of pleasure alone.
Empowerment is my mission.
This is more than a statement; it’s the reason I set out to bridge the gap between what people are taught about love, connection, and power, and what they actually experience.
I want to do more than point out differences; I aim to create spaces for learning, self-reflection, and practical growth, helping individuals navigate relationships and sexuality consciously.
My Commitment
I draw on years of experience in non-monogamous and non-normative sexuality communities, alongside my training as a teacher and trainer, to help people navigate these often tricky waters.
This is about more than advice: it’s about building self-awareness, confidence, and connection in a conscious and informed way.
